Musings From My Heart's Canvas...

Was just wondering if anyone has seen this one :)


I happened to watch it last week and was amazed to see how India has advanced and to what extent things have gone in this "Cultured" country! I was never a supporter of things when some people used to say that India is a land of culture and we must protect it. I always felt that India is a land of Hypocrites where everyone does everything that they "claim" is taboo and accuse as being some rotten influence of the "West". Indians i always felt were the most non genuine people i have seen. I havent roamed the whole world but atleast among all the people that i have met and observed, i have found indians to be least genuine and most double faced! While in college i studied in a completely conservative college and people there used to really turn me mad! Everyone will talk as if they dont even talk to the opposite sex and consider such things as taboo!! For me friends were friends...it dint matter if it was a guy or a girl and if i ever were in a relationship i was not gonna lie about it! but after studying in a closed cultured place like that...even my basics were shaken! Those people will talk as if they are the purest breed of humans with no blemish in their characters and if a girl ever had a boyfrnd or vice versa it was considered a Huge Blot on his/her character!! I cant believe most of them who spoke big things about character and culture have had love marriages now! Thats what i hated in my class mates...none of them seemed like a genuine person who will talk and do the same things! And thats what i hate among indians as such...they talk something and do something completely opposite! If only whatever the indians do in private comes out in public some day i am sure even US of A will awe at what indians can do!! I am not a person who hates Indians...its just that i hate hypocrites and i hate people who cant talk what they really do!!

Anyways...so watching this season of Emotional Atyachar i was amazed but also happy at the same time cuz i felt atleast this will help some kind of hypocricy to go away. India has a long way to go if it has to ever become strong as US or UK but atleast there are some channels like Bindass which speak the real thing. Its kind of heart breaking to see that more than 95% of the cases in EA2 are cases where girls suspect their spouse/boy frnd/fiance' and hardly any cases of girls being untrue. But even more heart breaking is to see how detestable guys and their ways can be!! Atleast 99.9% of the cases where the girl has suspected her guy, he has failed. Sometimes it is easy to see that the girl is innocent and just a brainless beauty, but some other times it is hard to watch a 8-10 yr emotional relationship break. Sometimes it is even funny to watch the guy being axed to the nerve! As of now it is one of my faves on TV and i am enjoying it thoroughly! Atleast the poor girls who become so emotionally attached to their partners in a relationship that they are ready to give away everything for it...have a platform to authenticate their relationships. I know everyone agrees that TRUST is THE most important thing in a relationship and there should not be a space for any kind of breach or authentication! But c'mon the people in that relationship should also know how to keep up that Trust. Its not one person's responsibility to keep the trust on the other and also maintain that trust on him/her self. Until we come to a world where relationships become pure and amaranthine...lets just watch EA and spill out the beans of our thoughts :)